These days, it seems like more and more men cheat on their wives, girlfriends, and fiancees. That doesn't surprise me. What surprises me is that so many women still want to marry their partner after he strays.
I'm not judging them, so don't take it that way. I'm just curious why so many women, myself included, put up with bad behavior from their men. I can understand wives who don't want to leave a cheating man; after all, they're already married and probably want to try to save their marriage. I totally get that.
I'm just confused about the fact that my friends, all of whom are beautiful and intelligent, feel like they should marry a man who cheats. It breaks my heart, actually. These women deserve so much better than the scumbags they're with.
So why do ladies stay with men who are dogs? There are a lot of different reasons, and I've heard them all. Some do it for the kids. Some do it because they can't afford to live alone. Most do it because they “love him” and know that he's “going to change one day”.
I thought my ex would change one day. He cheated on me repeatedly over the course of our relationship and even ended up marrying one of the girls. He cheats on her constantly and even gave her an STD. And yet she stays with him.
What are your thoughts on women who marry men knowing that they are cheaters? Would you marry your man if he cheated?